Life these days is full of fate’s quirks that tie you to places and people from all over the world. That is exactly how my story with Budapest went — a city where I gained an extended family and which eventually became my third home. At Sandy Times, we have already shared some amazing places to visit in the Hungarian capital as a tourist, but there is still so much more to explore. So here it is — my essential guide to experiencing the city like a local.

If you’re anything like me and adore that old European charm — imperial architecture, grand boulevards, and a touch of faded glamour — Budapest is basically a time machine.

Sure, you could queue for the famous New York Café, snap that obligatory Instagram photo, and sip ridiculous gold-topped coffee for 15 euros. But if you’re after something just as beautiful and a bit more authentic, head to Párisi Passage Restaurant. It is still on the fancy side, but with fewer tourists and a richer atmosphere.

For more budget-friendly historical gems, start with the recently restored Hungarian State Opera — whether for a guided tour or to catch an actual opera performance, it is a cultural treat. Just outside, you will spot the stairs leading down to Opera Station on Metro Line 1, the oldest underground line on the European continent. Even if you don’t need to get anywhere, go down just for the vibe — its original 19th-century look has been beautifully preserved.

If you're more into scenic rides than subways, hop on Tram Line 2, which trundles along the Danube and offers one of the prettiest tram rides in Europe. The yellow trams are charmingly old-school, and the riverside views of Buda and Pest are unmatched.

For more architectural eye candy, check out the Szabó Ervin Library or the ELTE University Library — both stunning places to get lost in, even if you don’t plan on reading a page. Then head over to Városliget (City Park) for a wander — it is a patchwork of palaces (including Vajdahunyad castle), museums, and leafy lanes perfect for an afternoon stroll.

And if you cross the river to Buda, don’t miss the Magyar Nemzeti Galéria. After soaking up centuries of Hungarian art, sneak up to the top floor — you will find a not-so-secret rooftop spot with a breathtaking view over Pest. Look out for the Parliament, the Chain Bridge, and the rooftops that stretch all the way to the horizon.

Food is one of the foundations of Hungarian culture, and I have to hand it to them — it is rich, hearty, and yes, a little heavy, but in the best possible way. All those generous portions of paprika-laced everything are pure comfort. It is like visiting a grandma who insists you haven’t eaten enough. Ever.

At the same time, Budapest’s gastronomic scene is wonderfully inclusive. You will find plenty of vegan and gluten-free spots, as well as allergy-friendly options, even in regular, non-specialised restaurants. No one is left out at the table here.

When it comes to Hungarian classics, there are a few you simply can’t miss. Start with gulyás — not the thick stew you might be picturing, but a soul-warming soup with beef, potato, and, of course, paprika. Then there is pörkölt, which is the actual stew: rich, slow-cooked until it practically melts on your fork. Lángos is the Hungarian answer to street food heaven — deep-fried dough topped with anything from sour cream and cheese to garlic or sweet jam, depending on your mood. And for a savoury twist on pancakes, try Hortobágyi palacsinta, crêpes filled with meat and blanketed in a paprika sauce. Comfort food doesn’t get more comforting than that.

To try these in their natural habitat, head to Parasztkonyha for a rustic, countryside feel, or Hungarikum Bisztró, which may be popular with tourists but still delivers on the flavour front. For something more upscale and old-school, try Gundel. If you’re after lángos and nothing else, Retro Lángos is your spot — plus, they cater vegan options, TATI Farm to Table brings a modern, seasonal, Michelin-recommended touch while staying true to Hungarian roots.

Dessert is no afterthought here either — Hungarians love their sweets and have entire pastry shops dedicated to them, known as cukrászda. Step inside and you will be met with a positively overwhelming choice of cakes and confections. Look out for Zserbó (a layered beauty made with walnuts, jam, and chocolate), Bejgli (rolled pastry filled with poppy seeds or walnuts), Esterházy (a walnut cake layered with silky buttercream and topped with its signature glaze), and Minyon (colourful bite-sized sponge cakes).

And don’t even think about skipping Kürtőskalács. These chimney cakes, caramelised on the outside and fluffy inside, are staples at winter markets but pop up all year round — and for a good reason.

Not a fan of dairy? No problem. Budapest is packed with vegan bakeries and cafés. Try Madal Food, Kozmosz Vegan Étterem, or Hearty Vegan Cakes for plant-based takes on local favourites.

And for a taste of the city’s everyday culinary life, the Central Market Hall is a must. Locals stock up on everything from smoked paprika (a souvenir worth making space for) to lavender-infused honey and Hungarian salami on the ground floor. Upstairs, it is all about ready-to-eat fare — Hungarian hot dogs, goulash, stuffed cabbage, and more. 

Finally, don’t overlook Budapest’s supermarkets. They can be a goldmine for local goodies, especially if you’re after vegan-friendly products. Biobárát is your go-to for plant-based local products like chocolate, ice cream, and cheese alternatives. And yes, even Lidl deserves a mention — for selling a dairy-free alternative of Túró Rudi, a chocolate-covered curd bar that is oddly addictive.

When you’re exploring a city on foot all day, a solid dose of caffeine becomes non-negotiable. Thankfully, Budapest is brimming with excellent specialty coffee spots that know their beans. Some of my go-tos include Mantra, Kontakt, Espresso Embassy, and Nanushka — part café, part flagship store of the famed Hungarian fashion label.

Sometimes it is good to escape the city buzz and swap it for a bit of peace and greenery. You don’t have to go far — Budapest offers plenty of nature breaks just a short journey away.

Take a scenic chairlift ride up to Libegő for sweeping views and fresh air, or enjoy a lazy afternoon wandering around Margit Island — a leafy escape in the middle of the Danube that also happens to host Sziget Festival once a year.

If you're up for a longer trip, head to Lake Balaton, Hungary’s beloved summer retreat, with its charming towns, vineyards, and beachy vibes. Or hop on a train to Gödöllő, a peaceful suburb home to the Royal Palace of Gödöllő. Think of it as Hungary’s answer to Versailles, just with fewer crowds and more tranquillity.

Budapest is full of hidden gems just waiting to be discovered. Be curious, take your time, chat with locals, and trust this — you will always stumble upon something special when you least expect it.