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by Barbara Yakimchuk
Personal Experience: How I Learned To Save Money
2 Oct 2025
When I have a bad day, I… count my money. And no, this isn’t a line borrowed from ChatGPT to open the article — it is the truth. I am not entirely sure how it started, but most likely it goes back to childhood, when my parents gave me a little leopard-print wallet with less than a dirham inside. From that moment, I began saving.
Over the years, I noticed that both friends and my husband would often come to me for advice on how to save. And while I never reveal exactly how much I have got — not because it is a lot (it isn’t), but mainly because I don’t actually know (one of my tricks is never keeping money all in one place) — they still seem convinced I know what I am talking about.
So, just in case they are right, here are a few life hacks I can share.
Budget planning
A big part of saving is actually planning. And no, it isn't about creating a complicated Excel sheet (unless you are going through a really tough financial patch). For me, those tables never work — they usually do more harm than good, leading to frustration and demotivation.
So what do I do instead? I set myself an average weekly budget that I simply can't exceed — and how I spend it is entirely up to me. Important note: my weekly budget isn’t just my salary divided neatly into four parts. The maths isn’t that straightforward, and anyone who skipped algebra might not enjoy my explanation. We start with the salary. Then I follow these three steps:
- Step one: Do I have any major expenses this month? For instance, my husband’s birthday or a flight home. Both require money, so I deduct them straight from my salary.
- Step two: Could there be any unexpected costs? Perhaps I have forgotten to renew my health insurance and might end up needing to pay for a doctor. Or I haven’t bought clothes in ages and can suddenly feel a strong urge for new trainers and a T-shirt. I don’t overthink this step — I simply set aside a sensible, rounded amount so I have got room to manoeuvre.
- Step three: Savings. Always put away 10–15% of your salary. Non-negotiable.
So, what is the formula? Time for a quick maths refresher:
Weekly budget = (Salary – expected expenses – unexpected expenses – savings) ÷ 4
And here is the fun part: if you manage to come in under budget during the week, that leftover money also goes into your savings box.
Motivation
The hardest part of saving isn’t the numbers — it is motivation. Without it, your savings account will dry up fast. One day you will wake up, and realise the last three months of “savings” somehow turned into a Miu Miu bag. If that was part of a long-term plan, fair enough. But if not, you are never going to get anywhere.
That is why I always split my motivation into two equal parts:
- A real treat I am aiming for — something I genuinely want to buy.
- My safety net — the comfort of knowing I have got money set aside for the unexpected.
Balance is key
As I said, how you use your weekly budget is entirely your choice. You might cook at home all week and then treat yourself to a new dress on Sunday. Or perhaps you would rather splash out on leisurely breakfasts in a favourite café and buy nothing else.
But let’s imagine you follow my weekly plan and, instead of choosing balance and comfort, you decide to live off instant noodles and keep the lights switched off just to save more. Bad news: extreme saving is like a crash diet — the first emotional crisis comes along and you end up splurging twice as much as you planned.
Here are a few things worth remembering:
- Some expenses are non-negotiable. For me, that is good-quality food (it has to be tasty and healthy) and a few essential skincare or cosmetic items.
- Treats are a must. Otherwise, what is the point of earning money if you never enjoy it? It could be new clothes, fresh cosmetics, a quick trip, or a massage at the end of the week. I do set limits though: no more than one big purchase a month, and no more than two small treats a week.
- Setting budget boundaries with friends can be tricky, but it helps. Everyone wants to do fun things together, and that usually costs money. If I can’t afford it, I am upfront about it — and it is never about cancelling. You can always postpone plans to the next month if this one turned out too “active” for your budget. Believe me, people understand!
Some more small tips
These tips don’t fit into one category — though they help as well!
- If your plan is “buy to save”, it is a bad plan. It never works. The classic example? Buying a coffee machine to “save” on your daily latte. Unless you are genuinely ready to change your lifestyle, these things only add to your expenses. A better approach is to adapt what you already do: for instance, if you normally buy coffee every day, cut it down to five times a week. Even those two cups fewer will make a noticeable difference to your budget.
- Always keep a little money in cash. I keep mine in dollars. Why? Because I can’t just grab that cash and treat myself to a fancy dinner. I would have to drive to the exchange first — such a headache that I never bother. True, the bank won’t give me the best rate, but at least I don’t spend it.
- Avoid impulsive purchases. My rule is simple: if it isn’t a definite yes, I need more time to think about it. I just take a photo and tell myself, “If I wake up tomorrow still thinking about it, I will come back.” You know what? I almost never do.
- Never plan shopping. If you go out with the intention of buying something, you will feel you have to get at least one item, otherwise the trip feels wasted. I have trained myself to leave shops empty-handed — it stings in the moment, but afterwards I am always glad I didn’t bring home something I didn’t really want.
- Keep money in different places. I have one account I can dip into, a tiny stash of cash in a box, and one completely untouchable account. Some people also save in crypto — that could be your fourth option if you are into it.