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by Sofia Brontvein

It Was Never Just About the Bike: How Cycling Helped Me Find My People In Dubai

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There are many perfectly rational reasons to start exercising.

You might want to become healthier. Lose weight. Gain strength. Improve your FTP. Run your first 10K. Finish a HYROX. Enter a cycling race and discover precisely how unpleasant the final 20 kilometres can become when everyone around you has apparently decided they are competing for a professional contract.

These are the things we normally talk about when we talk about sport. Performance is conveniently measurable. We have watts, kilograms, kilometres, heart rate, pace, repetitions, podiums and personal bests. Progress can be plotted beautifully on a graph.

But after two years of cycling, I have become increasingly convinced that some of the most important things sport gives us can't be uploaded to Strava.

Sometimes you start because you want to become stronger.

And somewhere along the way, you find your people.

I wasn't looking for a family

Making friends as an adult is strangely difficult. Making friends as an adult in a city where people constantly arrive, leave, travel and work ridiculous hours can feel like another discipline requiring a training plan of its own.

I struggled with it for years in Dubai.

I knew people, obviously. I had colleagues, acquaintances, people I could meet for dinner or message occasionally. But there is a difference between knowing people and having your people. The ones you don't have to schedule three weeks in advance. The ones you can call when something happens. The ones who have seen you happy, exhausted, furious, scared and probably looking absolutely disgusting after four hours on a bicycle.

For me, 29 Inch Academy gradually became that.

At first, cycling gives you the obvious things. Someone to ride with. A coach. A training schedule. People who understand why waking up before sunrise on a Saturday to voluntarily suffer for several hours sounds like a reasonable recreational activity.

Then something changes.

The people you ride with become the people you have coffee with afterwards. Then the people you message during the week. Then the people you call when something goes wrong.

Eventually you realise that the group you joined because you wanted to become a better cyclist has quietly become part of your life.

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Sport is a surprisingly efficient friendship machine

There is something about doing difficult things together that accelerates intimacy.

On a normal social occasion, everyone arrives reasonably clean and behaves like a functional adult. Sport removes this performance rather quickly.

Spend enough hours riding with someone and eventually you will see them exhausted, frustrated, scared, euphoric, hungry, angry and completely unable to produce another watt. They will probably see exactly the same versions of you.

You learn who waits when somebody has a mechanical. Who notices that another rider is struggling. Who shares their last gel. Who makes you laugh when everything hurts. Who tells you to stop when continuing would be stupid.

And afterwards you sit in a coffee shop and talk.

Sometimes about cycling. Often about absolutely everything else.

This is why I think calling these groups simply “sports communities” misses something. A good community doesn't exist only while everybody is wearing Lycra.

The ride ends. The relationship doesn't.

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Cycling isn't automatically a welcoming place

There is another reason community matters particularly in cycling: this sport can be intimidating as hell.

Walk into the wrong group as a beginner, and suddenly there seem to be hundreds of rules nobody bothered to explain. How to rotate. Where to position yourself. How to signal. What to do when someone punctures. Which wheel to follow. When to pull. When absolutely not to pull.

Then there is the equipment.

Wrong socks. Wrong bike. Wrong helmet. Wrong jersey. Apparently even the height of your socks can become evidence in a trial concerning your legitimacy as a cyclist.

Most of this is ridiculous. But the safety part isn't.

A poorly organised group ride isn't merely unpleasant. It can be dangerous. You're travelling at speed centimetres from another rider's wheel. One unpredictable movement can affect several people behind you. Someone who doesn't understand group-riding etiquette, doesn't communicate hazards or simply doesn't care about the riders around them can turn somebody else's Sunday morning into an ambulance ride remarkably quickly.

That changes what choosing a cycling community means. You aren't simply selecting people whose pace matches yours. You are deciding who you trust.

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A good coach builds more than your FTP

We often think about cycling coaching as an exchange of expertise.

You give somebody your goals and training data. They give you intervals, endurance sessions, recovery days and progressively more creative ways to make five minutes feel like an unreasonable amount of time.

And obviously, that part matters.

29 Inch Academy describes its coaching as personalised and data-driven, with structured training alongside nutrition, recovery and skills development. Head coach Agit Salman brings four national MTB championships and elite racing experience to the programme, while nutrition consultant Vicky Walshaw works on nutrition, recovery and long-term resilience rather than simply pushing riders to train harder.

But I think the best coaching environments do something beyond prescribing sessions.

They create safety.

Someone teaches you how to ride properly in a group rather than simply expecting you to know. Someone notices when you're struggling. Someone tells you when to push and, equally importantly, when not to. Experienced riders pass knowledge to newer ones instead of treating ignorance as a character defect.

And gradually you become confident enough to do the same for somebody else.

That's how a collection of people on bicycles becomes a community.

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People make you stronger

There is a phrase we use constantly in endurance sport: mental resilience.

Usually we talk about it as though resilience is an individual characteristic. You either possess sufficient mental strength to continue or you don't. Dig deeper. Push harder. Be tougher.

I don't think it works entirely like that.

Some of the strongest periods of my life haven't been the ones when I became extraordinarily self-sufficient. They have been the ones when I had the right support system around me.

People make difficult things feel possible.

They get you out of bed for a ride you would have skipped alone. They push you when you have more to give. They tell you to calm down when your enthusiasm has overtaken your common sense. They celebrate improvements that nobody outside your strange little sporting universe would understand.

And when life becomes difficult away from sport, they're still there.

That's the part no training plan can quantify.

A coach can improve your FTP. A nutrition strategy can improve recovery. Structured training can make you faster. All of those things matter, and 29 Inch quite literally builds its programmes around them. The Academy currently combines personalised coaching with regular Tuesday performance and Thursday social rides, skills sessions and a WhatsApp community, deliberately putting the collective alongside the performance side of cycling.

But people are often what make you stay.

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Find your happy place

This isn't really a cycling story.

It could be running. Pilates. Swimming. CrossFit. HYROX. A football team. A climbing gym. Whatever gets you moving and repeatedly puts you in the same room, on the same road or at the same starting line as people who care about the same strange activity you do.

Sport can make you healthier. It can change your body. It can make you stronger and faster. It can teach discipline, patience and the deeply humbling experience of discovering that somebody twice your age is considerably fitter than you.

But sport can also give you somewhere you belong.

I started cycling because I loved cycling. I wanted to ride farther, climb better, become stronger and understand what my body could do.

I didn't expect it to solve something I had struggled with for years.

Today, when I think about 29 Inch, I don't immediately think about training plans or power numbers. I think about people. People I ride with, certainly, but also people I can call. People I can laugh with, cry with, complain to, celebrate with or sit silently next to over coffee after a difficult morning.

Some of those conversations happen on two wheels. Some happen in a coffee shop. Some have nothing whatsoever to do with cycling.

Nutrition matters. Training structure matters. Coaching matters. Data matters.

But if you find the right people, something much bigger happens.

You don't just become a stronger athlete. You become a stronger person because you no longer have to do everything alone.